“The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Success”


 Let’s talk about something we all see every day — success on social media.

Open your favorite app, and boom! There’s someone on a yacht. Another person is showing off a fancy car. Someone else just launched a business and made a million dollars in a week (or so they say).

You start thinking, “Am I doing something wrong?”

Trust me — I’ve been there too.

The “Perfect Life” Is Not Always Real

On social media, everyone shows the best part of their day. They post the perfect photo, with the perfect smile, in the perfect place.

What they don’t show? The messy room behind the camera. The hard work. The mistakes. The days when they feel sad, tired, or unsure.

Success is not a one-picture moment. It’s a long, bumpy road full of learning.

Fast Success Is Often a Fake Story

Have you seen someone say they got rich overnight?

Here’s the truth: success takes time. No one becomes great in one day. They might tell you they “just started,” but many have been working behind the scenes for years.

Social media doesn’t show the full story. It shows a highlight reel. Like the best parts of a movie — cut, edited, and filtered.

Followers Don’t Mean You’re Winning

Lots of followers can look cool. But that doesn’t always mean success.

Some people buy fake followers. Some get famous for silly reasons. Some feel very lonely even with millions of fans.

Being successful is not about likes. It’s about doing what you love, being proud of your work, and helping others.

Real Life Is Slower — and That’s Okay

I used to feel behind. I thought I needed to “hustle” 24/7. But then I learned something big: slow growth is still growth.

Real success means:

  • Learning from your mistakes
  • Building skills step by step
  • Helping others along the way
  • Feeling good about who you are

These things don’t get many likes online, but they matter more than anything.

Don’t Let the Internet Rush You

You don’t need a private jet, six businesses, or a daily post about your wins. You need a plan, patience, and kindness — to yourself and others.

So next time you scroll and see someone “living the dream,” remember: you’re doing just fine.

Success isn’t a photo. It’s a process. And you’re already on the way.